Only a Kind Of Premium Adult
Way back when Doug and I first got married- I paid the bills. Then there was a situation with the mortgage check and . . . . I declared I was no longer into that responsibility and Doug would forever be the "Bill Payer" and I would live in ignorance of our financial day to day life. Don't go thinking I'm completely clueless. I mean- to a degree I am. But- I was the "Bill Filer." so I have rough ideas of how much our bills are and lived within a budget that was never fully discussed- but accepted. (A total side story- about 3 years ago I was recommended to serve on the Volunteer Advisory Board for our bank. Me. ME?!?! At that time, I didn't even know how to login to our accounts online because I forgot my password and had no idea how to proceed (I know now). I didn't know how to pay a bill or do anything- and I was serving on this board. My family and I had a lot of good laughs about this.) Another reason I am not the "Bill Paye...