Forcing Grown Up Lessons
Alexa. Alexa. Alexa. I tell you that girl is one independent thing. At the beginning of the summer I was feeling quite frustrated with her because I hadn't figured out her "currency." I couldn't figure out how to get her to do what I wanted her to do! I mean- I just give Andrew a look, throw a little guilt at him, and he's putty in my hands. Alexa is a whole other ball of wax. But I got her number now too. I have to talk to her, explain my frustration or concern, ask how we can come to some sort of solution and then walk away. And wait. She almost always comes to me the following day or a few days later, and is willing to work out a solution- and usually has one. I just have to be patient and appear to let the whole thing be her idea. For example I really needed her to stop sucking her fingers. She's sucked them since she was a teeny baby. When she was a baby I was so thankful for those fingers because sh...